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How to be a stronger ally

Let’s clarify: being an ally is more than just a label. It’s an ongoing process of learning how to best support the trans community. Here are a few ways you can start:

Educate yourself.

You don’t have to be an expert on all things trans. But the more you know, the more you’ll feel empowered to talk about it and educate others.

Speak up.

If you hear someone making negative remarks, have a conversation with them about it. If someone uses the wrong pronoun, gently correct them. Standing up for trans people (even when they’re not there) in a kind way shows your support and sets an example.


Speak out.

Go from ally to advocate. Over the last three years, state lawmakers introduced hundreds of bills that restrict the fundamental needs of LGBTQ+ people, with the majority directly targeting transgender and non-binary people. You can help promote change by calling policymakers, signing petitions, and supporting organizations like the Equality Federation Institution as they work to defeat anti-trans bills.

R-E-S-P-E-C-T.

Being respectful shows you acknowledge and care for the community and sets an example for others. This can be done in simple ways, like: 

  • Use the right pronouns. If you don’t know, ask.
  • Embrace their new name. Don’t use their former name.
  • Know which conversation topics are off-limits (hint: anything below the belt).

Tell the world you’re an ally.

These days, when we care about a cause, we post about it. (See where this is going?) Download this graphic to share across your social media accounts on National Coming Out Day and beyond.

Need caption help? Here’s an idea:

In honor of National Coming Out Day, I’m coming out to show my support for the trans community. Because they need it more than ever. (Thanks @translifeline for the graphic!)

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